You be the judge: should my husband stop slapping food on my plate so artlessly? | Life and style

Prosecution: Lense

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My 25 -year -old husband, Jim, is often not cooked, but when he does a shocking presentation. It is a ongoing joke in our house. When I cook – it is most of the time, because I enjoy it – take some time to make things properly. Everything looks organized and is well arranged. But with Jim, it is a case of just throwing everything on the plate. My meal will look as if it had lost a bar battle. It is chaos.

I usually work late when Jim cooks, so I really can return home for a cooked dinner. But the show is not its immediate. The peas will be in the broth, and the sausage will be placed unstable over the mash and vegetables.

I like everything separate on the plate so you can see what you eat and really enjoy.

I am not difficult, and I do not have problems with touching food; It is just that I don’t like delivering a board where you can’t know what it is. When Jim Carrey is made, it is accurately integrated with a small child.

Food slides off one side of the plate is not fun to eat. He does not have to choose vegetables from under the meat. It hinders the dining experience because it feels as if your food is trying to rest for it. Our daughter, Amanda, is called Jim’s attempt to provide “abstract expressive” food, which she thought was very funny.

I know Jim mean well, but when he wipes me with a chaotic plate, it looks like it was made with the least care. When I cook, a deliberate arranged painting says, “My love, I have made this for you.” When Jim cooks, his plate says: “Here. Eat.”

I love more tenderness. It takes 30 seconds to properly arrange things on the plate. Perhaps – do you dare dream? – It can wipe the edge of the dish with a tea towel and wipe any parts of the food. I am not asking Michelin. I just ask him to deal with the painting with more tenderness.

Defense: Jim

when It comes to a spoon on the meal, it is like a great relief – I am free from to cook

Lincy always complains about my food display, but I don’t think it is a problem. I am not in a cooking offer, I am a man who wants to eat in a hurry.

When I cook, I am all about efficiency. I know how to make flavors work, but I don’t like Dilly-Dally in the kitchen. Just accomplish it, this is my logos. I cook for Lenci when you return late to work. The kitchen is usually immediately for her, so I think it should be able to do this in its absence without burning it.

I am not a great cook. This is its jurisdiction. But when I do, it is only related to its completion and the dish. Do I gently get the salmon on a pillow of power with tweezers? No, I just hit him. She says I “slap” the food, and this is not my intention, although I assume that I am not checking the place where I put it. The meat can go over the vegetables, and there is no sauce in the middle of the plate. It is not deliberate – it is just because I am hungry or hungry.

I am not trying to win the food offer prize, I just try to make sure that Rizoto does not slip on the pan and do not start the fire. When it comes to a spoon out of the meal, it is like a great comfort. I am free from cooking and just have to get food over the finish line and to the plate. Perhaps this is why it seems to be neglected, when I am really happy. She still forgets to eat and says she tastes good. I just cook her and our daughter. They do not need a luxurious presentation.

Home cooking is supposed to be charming, rural and real, which is my style. I can slow it down and be a little more sensitive, but it will not be authentic to whom I am, and I am sure to forget you will not want to change me. After 25 years of marriage, I don’t think this is possible anyway. I just don’t think a chaotic plate should be mistaken in a loved dinner. That slapped food on the painting is a sound that appears to me. This should be more important than it seems.

The jury for the readers ’readers

Should Jim be more careful at service?

Food is a feast for eyes and spirit. If you have made time, effort and love to cook, then slap him on a plate that does not scream exactly, “I care.” Just take 30 seconds and show love!
Yasmine, 53

When you appear to your partner, you should not rush. You will not throw your swallow for a business dinner, you are in excess-you take some time to look good, for them. If Jim is able to cook well, then why mix all flavors in the last obstacle?
Jack, 23

Jim is not guilty! There is a large group of wealth that happens here. Lynsey is unnecessarily winding – a good taste, which really matters. But come, Jim! You are doing something nice with Linsi, why do you spoil it just because you can?
Ray, 73

Jim, it is clear that you are a good cook but you fall into the last obstacle on several fronts. A touch of separation and the moment of care that will occupy how to appear to my daughter, inspire your daughter and make the dish sing.
John, 37

“If the job is worth doing, it is worth doing a good job” that comes to mind here. How food is provided that affects our appetite and our pleasure, so all that Jim has to do is spend an additional 30 seconds to serve it properly – in addition to a longer time with work for a longer period why he feels the need to be rejecting Linsi’s request.
Chris, 77

Now you are the judge

In our online poll, he told us: Should Jim Plate be with more ingenuity?

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