Boomerasking: the sneaky, insincere way egotistical people dominate conversation | Social etiquette

age: The new technical currency, old.

appearance: Self -absorption in sympathy clothes.

Is this when Boamers ask me how I will provide an apartment when I continue to buy avocado? no. Unlike everything else’s mistake in the world, this has nothing to do with the newborns.

What is this, then? It is a conversation technique: You ask someone a question, just to convert it as an excuse to talk about yourself.

Like Pomrang? exactly.

How do you work? There are three parts: First, the question is asked; Then you listen to the answer; Finally, she answers the question you asked, which is all you want to do in the first place.

Against. Have you ever Boomorge? I hope, although I assume that we are all guilty of getting the unconscious agenda from time to …

Because I will never do it. My curiosity called me, but I am really curious about people. Also, I completely hate talking about myself! I just did it.

I did what? You asked me a question, just so that you can answer it yourself.

Smart, right? I get the selection of themes, and you still feel good care, from a conversation. This is the thing: a new study indicates that people find deep design.

What is the study? I was in American Psychology Magazine. I have found that Pomratins constantly believe themselves loved and attractive, while those in the recipient and found them actually arrogant and unclean.

They got a nerve, doing a study to me without my permission. It was not about you. There were 3000 participants.

I just try to make people feel that they hear, without Hard to hear them already. Unfortunately, people tend to note.

What is supposed to do, just boast? The study found that people really prefer this. It is better to simply announce your wonderful new job rather than ask someone about his job and quickly.

I am not so It is allowed to ask questions? Of course you are. The desire to be respondent and defend self -detection is both natural urgency; The point is not to use the first as an excuse for the latter.

So not only listen, but pretend to pay attention to the answer? No, you must In reality She is interested in the answer.

It is very complicated. Doesn’t this look like a lot of hard work for you? I think I am experiencing a balance sometimes, but it is good to check …

Because it looks like it The hard work for me, just as I was when I was skiing In the mountains of the last Christmas, the snow was perfect, but I … Well, well, it is good to talk to you.

Say: “This is interesting. How long have you been this way?”

Don’t say: “Sufficient for me – what to do You Think about my chat technology? “