A few years ago, I entered an elevator with a former colleague who knew him a little, but I will not describe exactly as a close friend. In the way we all did, we asked hundreds of times, I asked how it was, expecting the variable from the standard response: “Yes, not bad, my friend. How are you?”
Instead, this colleague said categorically: “My wife wants to divorce.”
I can not really remember how the rest of the conversation was on a short but painful journey to our land, which led to the paralysis of embarrassment. I hope that, but I can’t guarantee it. My colleague was only saying what was on his mind, talking about his reality, but the lack of the social candidate was the brutal honesty of the interaction too much and fully threw me.
Good honesty. You should not lie. In most circumstances, it would be better to tell us the truth. in most conditions. Not always.
There is a lot that can be said about the harmless lie, the brilliantly hidden truth, and the slight transformation of your real feelings when it is better for all those concerned just a little bit. Who leads us to Robin Amorim.
Manchester United coach is a very honest man. Incredibly honest. In fact, he is very honest, and he appears to be a man who is unable to hide his true feelings when he faces questions from the media.
Below are some examples of the very honest things he said in public places, since she arrived at Old Trafford in November.
“I do not help my players at the present time.“
“David Moyes is doing better than meIt is simple. “
“I must sell my idea, I don’t have another“
Robin Amomim often raises his soul in press conferences (Karl Rin/Getty photos)
“Imagine what’s for Manchester United fans. Imagine what a for me. We get a new coach who loses more than the last coach.”
“We are the worst team, perhaps in the history of Manchester United.“
“This is really clear (United can go down), so we have to fight. “
Amorim has always been like this. Some of his former players He said AthleteC in January This honesty and clear communication are among his strengths. “We prefer the truth,” one of them said.
But although the administrative straight shooter can be useful, and based, there must be a point where reverse results become. He will not necessarily dream of what he says in the dressing room, but you feel that it is unlikely that his players have been expelled after he announced them the worst team in the history of United-even if he had made clear a few days later that he was referring to himself more than his team.
Sometimes, it seems that, the audience, participated in a group treatment session, that Al -Daire shows his soul at every possible opportunity. Perhaps this is good, may be anxious, and it may be better than filling out everything.
Imagine if you were a friend of him and he was constantly telling you about things like that. You were doing your best to help him, but there should be a point where you say: “Come on, my friend … give her a little rest.” The man will be at a party that everyone will come out if a bad day happens.
Amurim Ashraim has 10 wins from 23 games responsible for United (Karl Rin/Getty Embers)
There have been a lot of bad days in United so far. It is impossible not to sympathize with Amorim. A young coach has already achieved a lot, but he was approaching the end of a course in Sporting CP and had an opportunity that he could not feel that he could not say no.
He wanted to wait until the summer, as it was reasonable, but United insisted that he took the task there and then, as he was not very sane. He may have had his nerves, trusted that he could finish the season in Portugal and still get a larger job, and avoid the chaos of Manchester United completely.
But there, it appears that it is increasingly deprived of the touch line, and then, as soon as he faces cameras and microphones, the world shows its reality.
All this will be completely different if things are going better on the field. If United wins, then this column may be related to the extent of its recovery, and how it is certain that it is a virtue that helped in connection with his players. But like most other things in football, everything is seen through the perspective of results.
He does not seem to play a personality or present a personality, as managers sometimes do to create some of themselves actual and themselves.
Which, for those outside United, especially the media, is great. The presence of a manager highlights his soul instead of staring at the camera empty and provides a range of functional importance, which is an interesting conversion of the base, even wonderful.
Amorim is an attractive speaker … but not for sugar (Alex Luke/Getty Emp)
For him, it could not be a good thing. Regardless of the debateable benefits of the public self, many of his statements only emphasize negativity about United-which does not need much confirmation-and create more debate and feverish coverage.
Will anyone seriously talk about the possibility of United, given the lower three condition, if he does not mention it? What is the benefit of comparing itself negatively for Eric Tin Hag or Moyce? This is the type of things that may be correct but you do not need to say actually.
Regardless of anything else, from the point of view of self -conservation, there must be a point where his employers believe is very honest, and that it attracts more negative than they can stomach.
Perhaps there was some evidence that the United coach could play the game when He reduced the reaction of Alejandro Grancho to replace him against the city At his last press conference on Friday, he said that the 20 -year -old will pay for a team dinner after the tunnel disappeared instead of taking a place on the alternative seat.
However, the advice to Amorim is just contacting her a little. Everyone will understand if you try a little positive on things from time to time. Nobody blames you for a little fiber from time to time.
And if you enter the elevator and someone asks how things go, just say: “Yes, it is not bad, thank you, my friend. How are you?”
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