My wife decided that she had finished sex. She did not give a specific reason. I asked if there was a deeper resentment for me – But she said no. I asked if it was perhaps He had feelings For other men – But it is He said no. It is in the following stages of menopause – eight years ago, when we met for the first time, It was a greater part of her life. But she just said last week Which – which Although she loves me a lot, and there There are no issues, they are You don’t want to have sex or anything else. Want I have to be there for her your Cobby partner, Undially, leaving I, honestly, fold the forgetfulness. I love herBut I feel that there is no physical intimate relationship It can break us.
There is no doubt that your wife’s decision is devastating for you, and you may have to decide whether this new scenario is possible for you, but it is possible that it is useful to try to get more information to help you understand “Why this? Why now?” Menopause can have a devastating effect on a woman’s sexual desire, and there can be all other types of issues such as the drying of genital and pain. Learn more on this topic, then show your understanding of it for your wife, and inquire about being useful to her in some way, such as helping her to reach the dates of doctors and available to listen to her physical and emotional concerns. Sexual abdication may be possible in the end through gentle negotiation, but I imagine that this should be much on its conditions at this stage. Some women choose to enhance their hormone levels in one way or another, which may help restore sexual desire, but this is an individual choice. After eight years together, I do not recommend that you make a hasty decision to move away, as there are many ways to explore it.
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