Celebrity buddy breakups are a lot like ours

Ha Romances may have been analyzed Even death, but the audience is very, One may even say performance nature Taylor SwiftThe relationship with Girl Squad has long provided a wide charm for the journalism of gossip and a disturbing amount of creative feed for her songs. But recently, the association that has passed once between the Grammy and Bestie winner Blake Blake Crash appears to be under the weight of a disaster, “It ends with us.” Although the problems of blonde millionaire celebrities may seem a world away from the drama that occurs in your group chat now, the female friendships – the most effective way to work through it – share a large amount of DNA. I studied conflict solution and survived enough of my own thinking to know that the terrain moving when friends fall is one of the most difficult negotiations in life.

When, for any reason, close friends suffer from rupture, there are some different paths of reconciliation. If friends are in contact and ready, they can, for example, search for an interest -based approach. In this process, the parties focus on the problem and what their proposed solutions are on the characters. This type of negotiation can be effective during the classic friendship point when friends previously finds their personal and virtuous personal paths, leading to feelings of neglect. One person, for example, may focus on Record the main recordings of its first six albumsWhile the other is steeped in raising her four children With Deadpool.

He was fast and vibrant friends a decade ago, for a long time enough to share and excel The famous Rod Esseland era. The two chanted each other through social media accounts, and Strategic cervical Through multi -girls nights. Swift was the Arab Livley girls, James, Eins and Beitti, and their names used as an inspiration to tell the “folklore” triangle. But now, Swift is still on the top of her game. On the other hand, it is still vital to fight under the reputation damage in “it ends with us”, while It has “another simple good” The film got only a lukewarm response.

In interest -based negotiations, friends may recognize that their positions involve different priorities and time restrictions, but they share mutual interest in caring for the relationship. They may then put concessions such as doing some activities with children and some away from the family.

Blake Levli and Taylor Swift hang in New York City, 2023. (Gotham/GCTY Images)

Or perhaps friendship may falter because someone is steeped in a bitter struggle and expects a support offer, while the other does not want to be placed in the middle.

Last winter, “it ends with us” director and Costar Justin BalouniHis team released an alleged text of vitality in which it seemed to showcase its strong contacts. “If you get to watch” Game of Thrones “, you will be able to be vial, and the same, I encountered some dragon. “ I read flowers. “My dragon also protects those I fight for. Therefore, we all benefit from those wonderful monsters.

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Then in the court file in May, the Donia lawyers claimed that Levli had requested Swift to delete text messages between them, and that her lawyer Mrs. Swift called for a support statement to Mrs. Livly, If Mrs. Swift refuses that if Mrs. Swift refuses to do so, special text messages of a personal nature will be issued in the possession of Mrs. Livly. Withdrawing earlier this month. It is difficult to analyze, if any, on part of the debris allegations, but it seems that the effect of vitality is in a rapid clouds in its battle. And Swift, with its lengthy record in Queen Bee Energy, cannot be satisfied with the inclusion as just a dogon with Daenerys for another person.

The alleged cooling between women has not reached a point The lyrics of the veiled song are thinAlthough Swift was told people recently “Their friendship has stopped” Because “Taylor does not want any role in this drama.” While the special reactions between the two women cannot be known, Swift’s presence in the conflict is unprecedented by the singer. In all lawsuits and provinces, even as cowority of Levli pants They expressed their support for herSwift She excluded herself from this narrationApparently, the company of other members of its team prefers. Unnamed colleagues have not been seen one day in months.

In a conflict like this, where there are other parties involved and aspects taken, feelings work inevitably. If you have faced the phenomenon of one friend who is going through a crisis while the other does not want to participate, you know how much embarrassment and how everything feels personal. The transformational negotiation approach can work well in such a scenario. In this model, the goal is not coercion; He admits, as one of my teachers once, our need for autonomy as well as communication. It is a healthy boundaries.

For example, two friends can talk about how the external problem affects their relationship to each other and then set the parameters about the external dispute. They may have decided to limit their talks on the topic, or one person may offer listening when the other needs to vent, but remain neutral within the group of greater friends. The key is to recognize the value of the relationship, even when the expectations of what the parties concerned should differ from each other.

The most difficult, strangest, most confused and dramatic relationships with a woman’s life are with her female friends. The closest of them Joint loundes Through the spoiler parties until the years of golden girls, women are extensively linked. And when they fall, they fall as much, and sometimes for good. Of course, it is not supposed to remain everyone who comes to our lives there forever. Some friendships, even long -term friendships are definitely ended as some marriages do. While moving forward is in good health, separations are approximate, especially when there are extended families, broader friends and professional networks affected by the repercussions. I feel more for Lively’s blocks in all of this, and caught up in an adult friction disorder. But then, girls. There is no doubt that they already know that sometimes friends work, and sometimes they never return together.