This is how we do it: ‘Even after 11 years we have sex every day, and three times isn’t unusual’ | Life and style

Mariana, 54

Our sexual relationship is intertwined with our love for each other. It is the language of our love

After divorce, I had a lot of wild oats for planting. I was interested in exploring the sexual aspect of myself fortified and placed during my marriage, which is the one that has been deprived for a long time. One of the reasons that made me very dissatisfied is that sex is an essential need and I did not get it.

Perhaps OWEN and I and I needed the experience of being in an unlimited relationship for the treasure and appreciating each other in the way we do, and to appreciate what it means to be in love. In those early days together, we were definitely compensated for lost time.

There was a lot of excitement, but there was also a sin because he was still married. We did not commit the relationship until he separated from his wife, but still, I do not want to cause harm to people. Our relationship has become deep and we quickly realized that we are very sexual compatible, not only intellectually and emotionally. Our sexual relationship is intertwined with our love for each other. It is the language of our love.

Owen is the first person you wanted to have sex every day. Even when I am tired or tense, I still want to do it, which I have not tested before.

Eleven years later, things calmed down a little. We were initially framed – we had sex in public places, in car parks and such places. But the intensity of our race has never retreated.

We often have Quickie – this is just the nature of our lives – and I always have orgasm. None of us expects a one -hour love session. We would like to do it every day, but sometimes we miss one day if we are not fine. When it reached the fifties of the last century, the patterns of sleep turned, and if it was awake, we will have sex in the middle of the night.

You have to adapt. I am at the beginning of menopause, so although I haven’t felt major changes yet, we have adapted us to use more lubrication – which we call foreplay in a bottle.

We are used to be very experimental, but with our pain and pain increased with age, we cannot really be an adventure. These days, we are happy with skill, brooms and spoon.

Owen, 59

We may be tired or tense, or do not have much time, but we still have this need

Even after 11 years, we have sex every day, often twice a day. Three times is not unusual. We discovered the value of Quickie very early, and most of our race is fast at this stage.

We may be tired or tense, or do not have much time, but we still have this need. It is not different from when you are hungry and stick to a sandwich; Not every meal can be a delicious experience, but you still have to eat. We carry the same philosophy to our sexual life. Not every time we meet you will not forget over the ages, but you still have this hunger. I want to feel her hands on me, want to feel my hands on her, and I know that we are loved.

At one time, we were interested in the extent of our doing, so we had notes and we wrote what happened in the bedroom: date, time, the conditions, and intimate details like situations. That year, we have the third together, we had sex about 800 times. We are not doing that now, but we are likely to have sex 400-500 times a year.

I have always been unilateral, but Mariana started as a trust. I got married for 15 years and I was not completely happy. Like each other relationship, it started exciting and emotional, but cooling to the point where the sex was not a big problem. Mariana and I gathered a friendship, and our talks began to become increasingly intimate. A long time ago, it was an affair. I left my wife after a month.

Initially, it was as if I was out of the desert and in this lush oasis, so I drank as much water as possible, I am afraid to dry. Mariana was in a marriage that was not achieved before, so we decided to live next to the Mantra: If you love someone, do you not want to have sex with them every day?